Have you always wanted more self-love, but aren’t sure what that means, or how to begin?

Do you feel tired and overwhelmed by taking care of everyone else?

Are you struggling with truly prioritizing yourself?

Then this course is made for you! In these 5 weeks you will be guided on a path to uncover your blocks to self-love so that you can create a life where you are nourished, satiated in your precious being, and living your heart’s desires. All of this is preparation for your “Soul Vows,” where you deeply commit to loving yourself for the rest of your life.

You will gain through this course:

  • Increased ability to receive more love in your life
  • Deeper inner-confidence, self-trust, and self-worth
  • Practices to express your needs and set healthy boundaries
  • Nurturing support in a community of heart-centered women

Week 1: Self-Care: How to nourish yourself and feel satiated

Self-care is the foundation of creating a lifelong love affair with yourself. When you nourish yourself, you deepen your self-love and feel radiant.

We will guide you to:

  • Develop a self-care practice so that you can feel satiated daily
  • Realize your energy drains and commit to releasing them
  • Cultivate your feminine energy through a powerful practice

Week 2: Self-love: Release the barriers to loving yourself

One of the major barriers to self-love is your arrows to the heart. These are the places where your wounds have impacted your self-worth and ability to receive love.

We will guide you to:

  • Identify your “arrows to the heart”
  • Clear your negative beliefs so that you can be your own best ally
  • Dissolve the barriers to receiving so that you can let in more love

Week 3: Self-Worth: Claim your own divine worth and gifts

Deep within you lies a beautiful gem – your essential inner gifts. We’ll help you strip away the layers so you can live from this gem- the truth of who you are- and live from your authentic being.

We will guide you to:

  • Learn where you are undervaluing yourself
  • Deeply embrace your unique gifts and stand confident in them
  • Feel your sense of worthiness and act in alignment with your preciousness

Week 4: Self-Commitment: Say yes to a lifelong love affair with you

By saying yes to yourself, you choose you. This powerful commitment creates a ripple effect and transforms every area of your life.

We will guide you to:

  • Learn the power of self-commitment and how it benefits every area of your life
  • Write your Soul Vows and powerfully commit to the ways you will honor yourself
  • Live your Soul Vows on a daily basis

Week 5: Self-Expression: Express your unique voice

All too frequently, you may feel you do not express your voice and truths. By freeing your voice, you can freely share your authenticity and creativity.

We will guide you to:

  • Discover where you have been holding yourself back
  • Set boundaries with important people in your life
  • Get in touch with your creative power so you fully express yourself in the world
  • Celebrate how far you've come in your self-love journey

The Marry Yourself Course Includes:

  • Five 75 minutes classes covering each of the steps below:

1. Self-Care: How to Nourish Yourself and Feel Satiated
2. Self-Love: Release your barriers to loving yourself
3. Self-Worth: Claim your own divine worth and gifts
4. Self-Commitment: Say yes to a lifelong love affair with you
5. Self-Expression: Express your unique voice

Course Dates: The course meets on Tuesday evenings from 5:30-6:45 Pacific Time/8:30-9:45 pm Eastern beginning May 28th. The dates are May 28 & June 4, 11, 18, 25.

A private Facebook Love Lodge Community Page to connect with other inspiring women in the course, to support each other, share your insights and questions. Audio recordings of all of the teleclasses so you can have the flexibility to listen to the course at your own pace.


1) Marry Yourself Telesummit: 15 luminaries share on the topic of self-love, self-care and listening to your soul’s calling ($97 value)

2) Video on Creating Inspired Work with Tarra and other women in The Feminine Business Model Telesummit

3) Interview with Maya Diamond on topic of self-love and dating with Kimberly Jackson of the Revolutionary Living Telesummit

4) A powerful Radiance Meditation with Liesel Rigsby of the Energetic Matchmaker

Join the Global Marry Yourself Community...

We are committed to creating a world where every woman deeply loves herself. Join heart-centered women around the globe in a sacred circle of support. Maya and Tarra are dedicated to creating a thriving community, and helping you to shine your radiance in every area of your life.

All participants are invited to join a private facebook group called The Love Lodge. In the Love Lodge, you can find your support partner (an optional buddy for the course), share your breakthroughs, post questions, and receive resources to empower you on your journey!

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What if I can’t make it on Tuesdays or I don’t have the time right now?

A: If you can’t make Tuesday nights, you are welcome to listen to it at a time that works better for you. You also have the flexibility to enjoy the course at your own pace. Maya and Tarra will also be checking in regularly in our online community to answer questions there as well. There will always be a ‘better time’ to do this somewhere in the future. But if you know deep down that it’s time to commit to self-love, then say “I do” to marrying yourself and join us.

Q: What is a virtual course?

A: It’s a great way to engage live teachings and each other from the comfort of your home! All you need is a phone line (or an equivalent voice service). Please note that dialing Instant Teleseminar from your phone is a regular toll call to the United States, and your telephone service provider will charge you according to your existing long-distance calling plan. You can also use Skype credit/subscription to dial in, and you’ll need to use your virtual keypad to enter your PIN. Other options include calling cards and discount long-distance carriers, and we also have a webcast option which allows you to listen on your computer and is completely free. Also, instant teleseminar has a lot of online

Q: Can I listen to the recordings anywhere?

Absolutely, the audio will be available to you to download in high quality MP3 format. This way you’ll never have to worry about missing a session and you can listen anytime and anywhere at your convenience.

Q: Can you tell me about the Private Course Page?

A: We will have a private community facebook page dedicated to helping you connect with other women, share insights, ask questions, and exchange information. No one will know that you are a part of this except the members of the course.

Q: What are the benefits of telling my friends to join the program?

A: You can travel the course together. This will help support you in making the tangible inner and outer shifts that you desire. Doing this course with a close friend will exponentially enhance your experience in the course.

Maya and Tarra are deeply committed to creating a world where every woman deeply loves herself. In November 2012, they created and hosted The Marry Yourself Telesummit, which attracted 3,000 women from around the globe, and featured interviews with self-love luminaries such as Marci Shimoff, Johnny & Lara Fernandez, Claire Zammit, and Maureen Murdock. Maya and Tarra connected with a vision of leading Marry Yourself retreats at sacred sites around the globe. They both live in the San Francisco Bay Area. Maya and Tarra are excited about leading this 5-Week Course and the Marry Yourself retreat in Bali, Indonesia this August. They are the authors of the forthcoming book, "Marry Yourself: 5 Keys to a Lifelong Love Affair With You"

Your Marry Yourself Coaches

Maya Diamond, MA (left), is a Love Coach and experienced Emotional Freedom Techniques/Tapping Practitioner. She helps women create a loving, fulfilling, and satisfying relationship with themselves and their partner. She received her master’s in Somatic Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. She also leads “Call In Your Man,” a 8-week Dating Skills Course focused on calling in your divine right partner.

Tarra Christoff, MA (right), is a career coach who helps women create inspiring and meaningful work that changes the world. After marrying herself in 2012, her life changed positively in many unexpected, and amazing ways, and she is now engaged to the man of her dreams. Tarra has lived in Bali, Indonesia and is thrilled to share this sacred land with women at the Marry Yourself Retreat this August.

"It doesn’t matter when you start loving yourself. The important thing is to “start.” Maya and Tarra will take you to the other side of loving yourself in safety, harmony, and sacred space. All you need is to show up and trust the process."

-Marilyn Kier

"I had a life changing experience working with Maya and Tarra. I was able to learn self-love and as a result grow stronger as a woman. I wanted to share the personal empowerment I discovered so I started a women's group where I live. My soul has been filled and my heart has been open to much needed love. We really are one. I am blessed."


"It was amazing to get the opportunity to dive into loving myself. To feed the places–physically in my body and emotionally that I had hardened against myself and lovingly dissolve that hardness. Maya and Tarra are great facilitators bringing much wisdom, compassion, poetry and skill to opening our hearts. I feel blessed to be supported in making this commitment to myself."



We believe in empowering women and will give 5% of our proceeds to Bumi Sehat, an organization based in Indonesia. Their mission is to reduce maternal and child morbidity and mortality and to support the health and wise development of communities. Toward this goal, they provide general health services, emergency care, prenatal, postpartum, birth services and breastfeeding support, in addition to education and environmental programs.

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